"....the teachers avoid the pronouns "him" and "her," instead calling their 115 toddlers simply "friends." Masculine and feminine references are taboo, often replaced by the pronoun "hen," an artificial and genderless word that most Swedes avoid but is popular in some gay and feminist circles."
To some, this may appear at first as a silly exercise—much ado about nothing. But those who run this school took the national decree to provide gender equality, even in day-care centers, quite seriously. They took the unusual step of recording their actions as they cared for the children and evaluated the degree to which they treated boys and girls differently. What they discovered was that their actions, inadvertently, were propagating sexual stereotypes.
"The filming, she said, also showed that staff members tended to talk more with girls than with boys, perhaps explaining girls’ later superior language skills. If boys were boisterous, that was accepted, Ms. Rajalin said; a girl trying to climb a tree on an outing in the country was stopped."
"The result, after much discussion, was a seven-point program to alter such behavior. ‘We avoid using words like boy or girl, not because it’s bad, but because they represent stereotypes,’ said Ms. Rajalin, 53. ‘We just use the name — Peter, Sally — or ‘Come on, friends!’ Men were added to the all-female staff."
Is it possible that these common differences in the treatment of boys and girls could have long-term effects on how the two sexes ultimately view themselves?
Daniel T. Rodgers has written a fascinating book titled Age of Fracture. Rodgers attempts to explain the social evolution that occurred at the end of the twentieth century as a movement from a society in which people considered themselves as individuals within a defined social sphere to one in which these aggregations of individuals began to fracture into numerous cultural entities.
If individuals broke out of the social structures that might have defined them in an earlier time, did that mean that they now possessed the power to determine the course of their future? Or were there more subtle constraints that remained? Rodgers devotes a significant fraction of his work to examining the possible sources of power that might provide those constraints.
If women in the United States gradually freed themselves from the formal constraints of laws and regulations that generated unequal treatment, did that mean that they were now unconstrained? Not necessarily so seemed to be the answer.
Rodgers discusses the ideas of the Italian Antonio Gramsci in identifying and emphasizing the role culture could play in enforcing rules of conformity.
Rodgers quotes the definition of hegemony provided by the British historian Gwynn Williams. Hegemony is:
Rodgers then adds:
While Gramsci’s thoughts were penned in the environment of World War II Europe, it is not difficult to see signs of cultural domination in current society. Would a young woman growing up in multicultural Manhattan be more unfettered than a young woman growing up in a rural area dominated by evangelical Christians? The Swedish school was correct in worrying about the little differences in behavior imposed on boys and girls.
Language is part of culture—an important part. Consider the terms "woman" and "female." Both are defined as a relationship to man, explicitly suggesting a subordinate state. Many languages enforce the rule that if gender is not specified it will be assumed to be masculine—presumably in the belief that if it is worth writing about then it probably involves a male. How many of these linguistic slights are women exposed to in the course of a lifetime, and what might be the effect?
Rodgers suggests that language can be a subtle, but powerful tool of suppression.
Sweden’s experiment in gender equality may or may not lead to any definitive conclusions, but the very act of defining the issue as it has, should cause others to reconsider the ways in which gender inequality is being addressed.
Excellent food for thought. My own Swedish heritage and brief exposure to that country is insufficient to use as a base from which, at 3:47 am, to allow my sodden brain to achieve deep insights. In a similar exposure to Norway, I see those two countries as very close in their way of looking at things.
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